We had a civil Union in the State of NJ in 2008. We have been seperated for four yrs. of the Union. I have obtained paper work entitled:Certification of Notification of Complementary Dispute Resolution Alternatives. while filling out the paper work it does acknowledge civil unions.
You should consider filing a complaint for dissolution.
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