It has been 3 months since my moms passing. Due to bein overwhelmed with her death and my own medical problems medical problems I haven't probated the will yet.Today I recived a letter from the courts that my brother had a judge order Ime to appear before him to probated the will. Will this be a problem for me that I din't do it right away?
You should certainly contact an estate attorney right away. In New York State, an estate attorney handles the majority of the probate proceeding.
The Court cannot take away your right to letters testamentary without giving you notice and an opportunity to be heard. I suspect that the Order that you received is giving you this notice. If you fail to comply, you may be deemed to have renounced your right to letters testamentary. If you have any additional questions, please feel free to contact my office.
I recommend that you contact an attorney who deals in probate issues in your area to represent you before the court. Tell the attorney about all of these problems. Bring the will and any other information you have about your mother's assets. Don't worry if you can't find it all to bring to the meeting. Go with whatever you have. The attorney will help you to sort this all out. In addition, tell the attorney about your medical problems and the attorney will advise you about what you need to do next.
Don't ignore the letter. Go see an attorney right away!
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