Unless and until he files to have his visitation modified by the court, you do not have to send your son to CO for the summer. However, if the visitation order says he gets 2 weeks in the summer you still need to send him if he pays for the airfare AND you have his address, phone number. Good luck.
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As long as the current custody order remains in effect, you're both obliged to follow it to the best of your ability. So whatever time the father would have had with the child under the old plan, he should still have. That will obviously be quite impossible if the old schedule was "every other weekend" or the like. If that's the case, then one of you ought to file a motion to modify the custody judgment in light of these new circumstances. You can read more about these laws here: http://www.northwestlawoffice.com/custody.html
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