What is the protocol in getting a new parental coordinator? What do we need to do? We have a very one sided coordinator who

Asked almost 2 years ago - Closter, NJ

sides with my ex husband and nothing ever gets resolved.

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  1. Kenneth A White


    Contributor Level 20


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    Answered . If a Parenting Coordinator was appointed or otherwise assinged within an Order of the court you would need to file a Motion requesting that the Judge modify the appointment, absent securing the consent of your ex. You should understand that if the Judge initially appointed the coordinator it is not very likely that the Judge would believe that person to be biased.

    Kenneth A. White, Esq.
    New Jersey Family Law Attorney

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  2. Jeffrey Anthony Skiendziul

    Contributor Level 16

    Answered . Mr. White is correct. Try and get your ex to agree to a having a new coordinator appointed or file a motion with the Court to have a new one appointed. Option 1 is the easier way to get this accomplished if he is on board. But, it can be difficult to accomplish if you have to resort to Option 2. Motion practice can become a bit difficult for those who are unfamiliar with the process involved. You may consider consulting with a family law attorney for further assistance so they can review the facts and circumstances of your case to get a better grasp on how you should be advised to proceed.

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  3. Sarah Jennifer Jacobs


    Contributor Level 9

    Answered . It is important to note that the program regarding Parent Coordinators throughout the State of New Jersey has changed. The Court can no longer appoint a coordinator on it's own; both parties MUST agree to coordination and can either select a coordinator or the Court can appoint an individual.

    My colleagues are correct with their assessments that if this Coordinator was appointed, then it is unlikely that the Court will simply think the Coordinator is "biased." If the Court utilized the standard appointment Order, there are mechanisms for you to challenge a coordinator's recommendation and/or seek termination of their services.

    If the issues are substantive enough that you feel your legal rights are being eroded, you have the ability to file an application to challenge the recommendations. As part of doing so, you could ask that the coordinator be replaced, but it depends on the very specific circumstance of your matter.

    You should speak with a lawyer who is experienced in family law to get some understanding of whether what you believe is "siding with your ex" rises to the level that a Court will review and take into consideration.

    Good luck.

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