Well, if he doesn't want the child, then the chances are really very small indeed that he'll get it. The only exception would be if your rights were terminated, which would require a pretty extraordinary reason.
You should consult with an attorney who practices in your state, if you become involved in a court case. Until then, you'd only need to take legal action if you want to set up a child support order or some specific parenting schedule - the latter of which will be difficult, if the other parent is in another state and doesn't care anyway.
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In order to establish paternity of a child born out of wedlock, you need to file a paternity action. That action can be used to set up child support and custody as well as have the court make a formal determination of your child's paternity. If there is a dispute about where the child should primarily reside, the court will look to determine who has been taking care of the child and how good a job they have been doing to help the court in deciding on the best interests of the child.
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