My son is going on twelve and this last visit he has informed me that his grandfather has verbally abused and threatened him. He is distraught and he suffers from ADHD and ODD. When he lived with me I had him seeing a medical professional and on medication as well as a counselor. Now that he is not living with me, his father has not taken him to counseling and keeps getting his medication changed. I do fear that this is having a mental affect on our child and that if I take his father to court, then his father will try to make me look bad or fight me tooth and nail for him. All I want is what is best for our son's well-being. What is best for him in the long run. Thank You, Rachel
Family Law Attorney
As a guardian ad litem, I would take into account what an intelligent 12 year old had to say. It would not be my only factor of consideration. If your main concern is medication, you don't have to change custody. Instead you can file to get an order that dad comply with the medical advise of the child's doctor. Be prepared to present lots of expert testimony.
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Divorce / Separation Lawyer
There is no legal age in the State of Ohio. The court will consider the child's wishes, but it will not be controlling. There are numerous factors the court will consider. You need to obtain an experienced custody attorney to guide you through this.
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