Based upon what you have stated you have the grounds to file a Petition for Modification of the Final Judgment regarding the parenting plan and time sharing as well as a Motion for Contempt. I would also suggest that you begin video taping the exchanges of your son between you and your ex-wife. You would also be well advised to retain an attorney for the action as modifying an existing parenting plan and time sharing plan is one of the more difficult things to do in court.
Daniel Bachert, Esq.
The Bachert Law Firm, P.A.
330 Clematis Street, Suite 222
West Palm Beach, Florida 33401
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This is a real problem more for your son's future than for the problems he is experiencing today with his vindictive mother's behavior. My office has developed a Custody Modification Tool which is part of the work product we use with our clients who want to modify custody. This will help you evaluate whether you want to invest money in the serious attorney fees necessary to properly address this matter. Call me at 954 522 1922 if you wish to discuss this further.
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