You need an attorney. Just because a matter is set for mediation does not mean that you former employer will agree to pay anything. EEOC does not represent you. You need an attorney to determine whether you have a case that can be successfully pursued if mediation is not successful. You need a lawyer to cause your opposing party to take you and your case seriously.
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