at the hearing judge ordered mediation since he is disputing child support. he abandoned me and two kids for a year, left me with mtg., school, etc. He has not sent any money
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He also has been having an affair. He keeps telling me he wants to return home from Wisconsin, so after three times and no show, I know he is not sincere and is stalling.
If the Court ordered mediation, and your husband is not cooperating with setting up the mediation, then you can go back to the Court and inform the judge, ask for contempt, and ask for a judgment. You would do best to get a lawyer to help you with this.