What happens if the respondent serves me her response after the due date the judge ordered?

two times I made myself available for service. One time she said "nah" to be difficult. The second time I was standing next to the person who was supposed to do it, I asked if she had something for me. respondent said "I do but I'm not f#*!ing giving it to him". She ended up serving me a day after the deadline. I had already gone to county records and got it myself. I was awarded emergency custody. She has missed both of her visitation dates. She also tried to take my son from daycare without my knowledge. This is all because she hadn't read what she was served and had no idea that she couldn't. I have text messages saved for all of these events. Should I submit these to show that she is not taking this seriously? She has not seen her son in 3 and a half weeks.