I just found out my neighbor and FORMER friend had been carrying on an affair with my husband for 5 years. I am disgusted with her. Other neighbors said she flirted with their husbands too so I suspect she gets around the block. I am so angry and hate her. What do I need to do to get her disbared? I have knowledge in the past 10 years she cheated on her taxes, smoked pot, drank and drove, and is an adulterer. She also lied in court for me once for a speeding ticket. I think the bar would love to know about her ways. She is a a big time realtor in town and does not do court like regular attorneys. Can I file with the Pennsylvania Bar and the real estate licensing to take away her license? I am sure the neighbors will gladly join me in this action.
Employment / Labor Attorney
I am a California attorney and not eligible to give legal advice in your state. My comments are for information only, based on federal law and general legal principles. YOUR STATE MAY HAVE ITS OWN LAWS THAT PROVIDE SIMILAR OR GREATER PROTECTION. If I refer to your state's laws, that only means I did a quick Internet search and found something that appeared relevant. You should not rely on any comment I make regarding your state's law. You MUST check with an attorney licensed in your state.
Attorney discipline in Pennsylvania is handled by the state Disciplinary Board, which has a comprehensive question and answer page here: http://www.padisciplinaryboard.org/faqs/consumers.php
Attorney discipline is not based on general morals or good behavior. There are specific moral and character issues that may be relevant to licensing; you can speak with an ethics attorney in your state to see if this attorney is violating any professional rules.
However, the circumstances you are in and the tone of your post indicate you should wait a few weeks before taking action. The information you just discovered is extremely painful and horrifying, and you must be feeling betrayed by both your neighbor and your husband. This is not a good time to rely on your judgment. Anyone would be prone to making unhelpful decisions in your situation.
I hope things work out for you.
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This will be difficult. It probably won't be satisfying to you. Focus on the violations of the law and dishonesty.
Ethics / Professional Responsibility Lawyer
The most common reasons lawyers get disbarred - by a wide margin- are stealing money from the escrow account, and getting convicted of a crime. You are understandably furious about all this, but it's the wrong reason to want to get a lawyer disbarred.
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Before I respond to your inquiry, I must state that we have not spoken, I have not reviewed the relevant documents and facts, and I do not represent you. Therefore, my discussion below is not a legal opinion, but is informational only. Finally, my discussion applies only to issues to which Pennsylvania, New Jersey or Federal law apply, unless otherwise specified.
That being said, I'm very sorry to hear of your situation. The tax, drug and DUI issues are all ones that could get her disbarred - although a suspension is more likely. The issue of lying in court would likely result in disbarment, but also potentially lead to liability for you as she lied on your behalf. You should contact an attorney that deals with ethics issues as a primary practice area to discuss how this might all work out.
The other answering attorneys are all correct in their statements that this may not be a good course of action for you. In my experience, any legal action taken for revenge has a HUGE emotional cost and leaves the original wound open for years - preventing you from any healing at all. The ethics complaint and proceedings could take up to two years, and the whole issue would be hanging over your head all the time. You will have to decide if it is worth it - and making a decision you won't regret while you are freshly hurt will be hard to do.
This is even more reason to seek the advice of an ethics attorney. Once you know how and whether you will be caught up in the process, and whether it has any chance of resulting in the disbarment you seek OR resulting in harm to you (i.e. a charge against you of suborning perjury for her lying on your behalf, etc.), you can then make an informed choice about what to do.
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