We raised our grandson five and half years out of six and want custody of him. Parents are military and can not co-parent. the child is now in his second second school since school started in Augustr. The mother moved him to keep the father out of the picture. Have not been able to see grandson in 3 months becasue his wife wants nothing to do us. there have been some child endarangerment issues in the past and emotional abuse on her part. The father has not see his son either. we are still in the custody proces. Is there anything his attonrey should be doing to ensure we can all see the child? the child has stated to grandparents and others of the mothers emotional aburse.