She should file for emergency custody and possibly and Order of Protection if she is in fear for her safety or the safety of the children. I am hoping that she took the children with her when she left? If not, and if there are no court orders granting the father custody, she has just as much right to take the children as the husband. A history of domestic violence, especially if the abuse extended to the children or was witnessed by the children, can have an impact on the Judge's decision regarding custody. You should contact a local family/matrimonial attorney to discuss the specifics of your situation.
Spousal abuse if there is an order of protection granted after a trial is something the courts have to consider when making a custody order. Short of that anything else that goes on or went on is something for the judge to consider as part of the entire matter.
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I agree with the other attorneys who have answered and urged you to consider emergency measures. It is also true that for purposes of determining child custody, bad behavior that occurs when the children are not present may not be considered by the court unless it can be shown that it indirectly affected the children in a negative way, which can often be hard to "prove" without expert testimony and other costly litigation tactics. Nevertheless, I suggest you consult with a local attorney to review all your rights, options and obligations before you take any further action.
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