There is a current pending motion of contempt on my ex for violating our decree at this time . While waiting for our current contempt hearing , she is blatantly refusing to be available for our kid's scheduled drop off time . She only gave me notice 4 hours before drop off . Her text response to me after I replied included disparaging remarks about me as a parent and then goes on to say that I would tell my kids some BS about teaching the kids a lesson about following rules and listening to the [ divorce ] papers . e Do I need to serve her again on a different contempt case or is this something I should add to the current case on a different point ? Clearly , she doesn't care to follow our decree or our parenting plan .