Help! I know this sounds like no biggie but my sister-in-law is a complete nuthead! We have a new kitten and live in a house in a canyon. Crazy B and her kid were SPECIFICALLY told if they wanted to see our new kitten they could come over when we are there (Duh!). When we were at work with our front door locked, Crazy B had her kid access our back deck by climbing onto it from the next door neighbor's back deck (the kid's friend lives there). From there she opened an unlocked sliding glass door and went to the front door to let her mother, the Crazy B in. The main issue I am worried about (theft being secondary) is that we have another indoors cat that could possibly escape when they are doing this! I am so furious about this that I have been unable to sleep at night! Please educate me!
If Crazy “B” does not respect your instructions not to break and enter, then handling it in the family is not likely to address your issues. You could make sure the house is locked up tight when you leave. You could also go into court and ask for a restraining order to keep Crazy “B” from breaking and entering. However, there are already laws against breaking and entering. Although the police may not investigate this, I would make a complaint and ask that they speak with Crazy “B” and remind her that breaking and entering is a crime.
Mostly I would just make sure that the house is locked up and that should put an end to unauthorized “visits.”
Best of luck to you.
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You are probably best to try and handle this within the family. You may be able to sue her for trespass, but I don't hear of any actual damages. It could also be reported to the police as a break & entering, but I doubt it would be thoroughly investigated or prosecuted. If you do want to hire a lawyer on this matter, expect it to cost you more than you'll recover.
Of course this is just general information, and you can't be advised specific to your situation without knowing all the factual details. If you need legal advice, consult a lawyer in your jurisdiction.