We have a car the is in my husbands name only. He is now incapacitated. The payments are now two months behind. I am the only one working, struggling trying to keep up with the bills. I contacted the creditor several times to try and make payment arrangements on the car but they will not discuss anything pertaining to the account with me because of the privacy act. What are my rights? I'm sending a payment but I don't know if that will stop them from coming to take the car?