First I would make sure a police report is made about the accident. Second, I would report the accident to the other driver's insurance as well as her company's insurance. While doing this, I would also recommend hiring an attorney as you will probably need help getting through this situation.
WIth your boyfriend having his license suspended the question becomes why and did he know. That needs to be cleared up as well. Your boyfriend needs to contact whoever suspended his license to clean up this issue (eg. pay fine, get proof it should not have been suspended, etc). Your boyfriend may need any attorney to clear his issue up too, but clearing up his issue may improve your position with your insurance company.
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