i keep trying to contact she wont let me know where she is are where my kids are
Family Law Attorney
If she has filed for divorce, the court must serve you with the petition or you must be notified by a curator. You can be served by mail. You can file if you are domiciled in Louisiana and you can ask for custody of the minor children.
Every situation is different and you should consult your own attorney to go over all the particular facts in your case. The answer given is only intended to provide general guidance regarding rights and responsibilities.