About a week before we broke up, he came up behind me and started rubbing my breasts. I told him to knock it off, and he did, but he never asked for consent before he touched me in the first place.
Does anyone know if it's still sexual assault even if I was his girlfriend and he stopped when I told him to? He's being a real jerk and I'm thinking of reporting him to the police for this.
by "he", I mean my now ex-boyfriend.
Family Law Attorney
If you were his girlfriend and he stopped when you asked him to, I'd say no you weren't assaulted. I'm assuming this is something he did from time to time during your relationship. Also, I know you don't want to hear this, but being angry with a jerk is thing, ruining his life potentially is another. Criminal sexual assault is a very serious bell to ring. If he won't leave you alone, then warn him to leave you alone or you'll get a restraining order, and if he continues then - file for a harassment restraining order. Best of luck for you though.
Sincerely, Linda Morrison
Criminal Defense Attorney
Assuming that this question is also in relation to the previous questions you posted, I will assume those facts apply to this question as well.
First, no you cannot press charges. Criminal charges are a very serious and life altering event. Due to the risk of individuals pressing charges for inappropriate reasons, criminal charges can only be filed by the State. Although it is your right to make a report to the police, they have no duty to pursue those charges, nor does the prosecutor have a duty to file those charges.
Second, given the facts that you have presented, it does not sound like this was a violent act, nor does it sound as if this was the first time such an action had occurred. In addition, it sounds as if your ex-boyfriend would have been unaware that such action wanted.
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Criminal Defense Attorney
First, only a prosecutor can press charges. They can do so whether or not you wish it to occur.
Second, seeking to have charges pressed long after the fact because you are angry with the person presently, really is an improper motive. Criminal charges are extremely serious. You do not make police reports and seek criminal charges just to get back at someone.
Third, given the nature of your relationship, the fact he stopped and the delay in reporting, it is not particularly likely charges would be field if it was reported , and , if they were, there would be significant defenses. .
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Given the facts and circumstances I would say NO. It seems he immediately stopped once you let him know you did not consent. In the future, if you believe you are a victim of a crime, you should report it to the police immediately (cases become harder to pursue the longer you wait to report). However, the criminal justice system is a very serious thing and should be used ONLY to handle criminal acts and NOT to get revenge on an ex-boyfriend.
Sexual Harassment Attorney
This question, exactly the same question, has now been asked in 3 cities- Houston, New York City, and now St. Paul. Wow, what a "coincidence"!!
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