A former Co worker quit showing up to work. I later found out that they had entered my email and printed many private conversations i had had with friends. They are now using them to fight for unemployment bennifits under "Hostile working environment" My employeer says not to worry but clearly I am. I dont know what they have, i dont know who they have showed it to. Should i get a lawyer of my own? What are my rights? Should i be on the offensive?