I was divorced Oct 2005 and then married Feb 2006 in Mexico. I have been reading online and see that you have to divorced one year befor you can be married in Mexico. Does this me that we are not married?
We were both living in NH at the time we went to Mexico...I have since left him due to domestic violence and I guess am needing to know if I need to file for divorce or know that in fact we were not married at all...
Family Law Attorney
For help with Mexican laws, you will have to find someone who is familiar with Mexican laws. Given that WA is quite a way from Mexico, most WA attorneys likely would not know Mexican laws offhand.
However, if you are both in WA now, there may be a simple way to fix. You can look into getting married in WA. The marriage procedures in WA are relatively simple: apply for the marriage license, wait 3 days, get married within the specified period. Your local courts likely can perform your marriage ceremony for you. There is no legal requirement for a fancy wedding.
If you or your husband gained immigration benefits because of the Mexican marriage, you should check if the alleged invalidity of that marriage affects the immigration status.
You review your facts and options with an attorney.
Criminal Defense Attorney
You are correct that in most Mexican states you may not remarry unless a year has passed after your divorce. In some states this rule applies only to women. Why? They want to make sure any child the woman has was not a child of the former marriage. I know this doesn't really prove anything but this is how it works. So you are not legally married and you may wish to remarry in Washington as the first attorney suggested.