I want to obtain full custody of my son. Father and I were never married, he has not established paternity. Son is 7 months old. He kicked us out of his mother's house when we were visiting in Florida. Did not see his son for over 2 months. Went to see him in NY (where he lives) and he started abusing me emotionally. I snapped and scratched him. He called police, charges were not filed. He videotaped me doing the scratching. I apologized. A few days later, he called Child Protective Services in NJ were I was staying. Since I was no longer a resident of that state, they contacted me in Washington (where I now live). I met with a social worker and they told me not to have contact with the father. He has been calling me and harassing me and I threatening to take my son away from me. He owes me thousands of dollars on a loan I gave him a while back and he has never paid a dime in child support. HELP!