I have read scary stories about how ICE officials treat deportees, if I volunteer to go back to my country will i be arrested? will i have access to my finances? and my stuff?
As long as you are not in deporation process you can go back to your country with no problem
I agree with Attorney Dzhamgarova. If you choose to leave on your own, keep track of your receipts as proof of the date you left the US in case you need to prove you left at a certain date later. Good luck.
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You should not be intimidated by ICE officials. Be firm, request a court hearing if you are eligible for it, and do not sign anything before you consulted an with an immigration attorney.