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Virginia Statutory Rape Laws... over 18 and unknowingly w a minor

Portsmouth, VA |

I am 23 & have been intimate w a 19 year old girl. Weve been together 5 months. Yesterday she tells me she is actually 17!!!! What do I do? I def have feelings for this girl and im still trying to wrap my mind around the fact that she is 17. EVERYONE she knows (fam included) has seemed to go along w the 19 thing and she is in college (graduated early). I mean howd i miss that!

I feel so violated. Can I be charged if I didnt know under VA law??? Again I doubt this would happen as her mother is aware. If i continue to be with her with her parents consent is that illegal??

My whole world has been rocked and im trying to cope. never been with a girl EVER before.. kinda regretting it.

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  1. In VA the legal age of consent is 18; therefore you are in violation of the law. It is not a question of whether her parents consent but whether she has the capacity to do so and legally speaking she does not. You must break off the relationship or be in continued danger of facing serious criminal charges. BTW, in many states age differential may make for a more serious crime. In your case it is 5 years so you have that to be concerned about as well. See a VA lawyer.

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