As to second set of questions, garnparents and aunts have to legal right to petition their grandchildren and niece/nephews respectfully. If they are with you under the F-1 status you have then they need to leave when you leave.
The first series of questions should be directed to the educational agent responsible for the SEVIS reporting and compliance requirements. Good luck.
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