I am fine with my sister being the guardian of my mom's personal and health care needs since she lives in the state that my mom lives in. I just want to be kept aware of what is going on with her healthwise. Is it usual that she (my sister) would be the only guardian of the estate. Does this mean if my mom does pass away that she is then in charge of the entire estate? My sister and I don't get a long very well and I want to make sure I am legally protected.