I got pregnant 10 yrs ago and did not list the father on the birth certificate. I never saw him again. I got married two years ago and would like to add my husbands last name to my daughters(she has my maiden name). We would also like to get some type of legal guardianship for my husband without trying to find the bioligical father. My daughter was born in Alabama but we now live in Maryland. Is this possible? We were told nothing could be done without consent from the father, who is not listed on the birth certificate and for safety reasons have not made effort to find, not even adding my husband's name to her birth certificate. Is there anything we can do without trying to find this guy?
I am in the similar situation with my daughter. When she was born i gave her my maiden name and for her protection do not want to locate the biological father in order to have her adopted. I have been married for almost 3 years and my new husband wants to adopt her. I am lost on where to start this process but I know it needs to be done soon before she starts school as to not confuse her. Help!
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This is very complicated to fully answering in a forum such as this. Basically what you need to do is find a local family law attorney that does adoptions. Your new husband needs to adopt those children.
Hello - I am a MD attorney so can answer your question in accordance with MD law. There are several issues you have raised: 1) Can you change your daughter's last name to your husband's? 2) Can you have your husband obtain guardianship of your daughter without obtaining permission from her birth father? 3) Can your husband adopt your daughter without finding her birth father? Here are my general answers without knowing more specifics about your situation. 1) Most likely you can change your daughter's surname without finding and obtaining permission from her birth father, as long as the name change is for no fraudulent or illegal reason, like hiding your daughter from her birth father. 2 and 3) Actually, legal guardianship and adoption are similar. You will need to look for the birth father in order to have a Court grant either guardianship or adoption to your husband. That being said, the process of stepparent adoption is not difficult in MD, and you may only have to send notice to the birth father at his last known address. You may have to publish a notice in a newspaper of general circulation where he lived the last time you knew his address. It is very likely that he would not come in to contest the adoption. However, it sounds like there are some facts here that may give you pause in trying to find him. If you don't pursue a stepparent adoption of your daughter, there are some legal documents that you should have prepared to protect her relationship with your husband, for example, a Will and a Designation of Standby Guardian.