The video was posted on a website that is not a porn site. I was not paid nor did I sign a release. It was simply me being taped while engaged in sex with this individual. I contacted the site twice now and the first time they did take it down but did not prevent him from being able to post it again. What action can I take legally at this point?
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You may be able to get injunctive relief to get the tape down. There are also several causes of action including invasion of privacy. You should retain counsel to handle this aspect.
In addition, the person posting the tape may be committing a crime under federal or PA law. I recommend contacting your local police department. I realize it may be embarrassing, but you can ensure this person will never do this again by contacting law enforcement. They are there to help.
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You can try talking with law enforcement but aside from them perhaps being interested in viewing the evidence, I am not sure they will do much for you. The better solution is hire a local attorney and be ready to provide a retainer so you can sue the person responsible for every remedy the lawyer can think up.
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