Primary home purchased on 12/05 with 100% financing with a 1st and a 2nd. I refinanced the 2nd a year later and took 10k out and get a better rate. The 1st has given its approval for the short sale and will give $3k to the 2nd @ closing. The 2nd will not give approval unless I agree to bring $17k to closing and carry a note of $35k @ some unknown interest rate for some unknown amount of years. The actual balance of the 2nd loan is $88k. Is this the norm for short sales where 2 different banks are involved and the 2nd is not a purchase money loan? I am trying to see if I should just accept as is or try and negotiate further and risk the 1st foreclosing. The first would like to close in 3 weeks. I am not sure what the difference is on my credit between a short sale and foreclosure.