Married for 10yrs but 2 years living separately with no kids.During that 10yrs no wifely duties.Refused to sleep with me in all that years.Wife wanted divorce but changed her mind.I had been faithful but I`ve found a wonderful gf last year & wish to marry her but wife contested.Want to sue me & gf.My gf have a small daughter whom I love very much.My wife wrote to my company&parent regarding my affair.Refused to communicate.Threaten to come oversea to where I work and sue my gf plus make me lose my job.Any advice would be appreciated.