First question is whether your parent died with or without a Will and what the Will says. If there is no Will, Kansas law provides that 50% of a deceased person's assets pass to the surviving spouse and 50% to the childen. However, if a deceased person owned all of their property jointly with their spouse and/or named the spouse as primary beneficiary on assets, there may be little, if any, assets that would be subject to the terms of a Will or the laws of intestate succession. Did you parent own any assets in their individual name? On the personal property, you could possible file a probate action seeking ownership of 50%, however it could be difficult, and expensive, to prove. So, unless the personal property has significant value, it is probably not wise to go to war over personal property.
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