Service on a person of suitable age and discretion where you reside or work is a form of personal service but it requires the plaintiff to mail you a copy within 20 days of the service. As a party you cannot serve papers.
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I am surprised you are even asking this question. You have been sued. Get. A. Lawyer.
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