My exhusband and I have a prenuptial agreement. We have been divorced for 14 years with two children 14 and 12. I get a check every month we call alimony. Recently anytime he gets mad about something which is normally something he creates he decides not to pay. One time it went on for three monthes. This is the third time he has decided not to pay. His reason. He had a women working him for him when we first married and she interested in him I found letters. The court said during our divorce she was to be nowhere around the children. After 12 years he has her back in his home "working for him" I gave a copy of our papers to him with the part highlighted saying she was not allowed. I also asked him not to put her around the kids. So this is his reason for not paying. We were considering getting an attorney to enforce the prenup it is enforceable accept it would be so expensive. Is there any other way to make him pay? What if interest is charged for credit card bills. How do I keep him from repeatedly doing this? How would others avoid something like this if they were to enter into a prenup?