My children's grandparents (on their fathers side) have filed for joint custody with me. Their father is in the process of giving up his rights to me. I have no desire to share custody of my children with them as I am completely able to raise them myself. I am curious as to what the chances are that the judge would give them joint custody.
If you are otherwise fit as a custodial parent to assume sole/primary/legal custody and the father is consenting (he can't totally "give up his rights" unless there's a custodian willing to adopt), there is little chance that the grandparents will share custody with you.
This would only occur in the instance where you were found to be abusive or neglectful, and then the grandparents might gain primary custody or become guardians. You don't have much to worry about here, but having an attorney to deal with the grandparents or their attorney would reduce your stress levels.
Grandparents don't ordinarily have a right to custody or even to participate in a custody matter or file petitions where the biological parents are in the picture and are otherwise fit to be parents.
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The court will not order joint custody to you and the child's grandparents. Either you'll get custody or they will get custody.
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Unless you agree, the chances are nil.
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They will not get joint custody with you, unless you are utterly and completely unfit as a parent.