My divorce agreement states: "The horse owned by the parties shall be owned by my ex-wife. I shall maintain the horse at the Martial Home (I live there, she lives in a new house) and shall pay all costs associated with boarding (including food and shoeing) through summer 2012. The horse shall be sold by Sept 2013. If the horse is not sold by the time I sell the marital home, the cost of the horse boarding shall be split between the parties 50/50." I put my house up for sale as it said to in our agreement. My house is NOT sold. I was happy to board the horse, however my ex-wife decided to move the horse early in July 2013. And now she is asking me to pay for the boarding 50/50 at a expensive sale barn for July & Aug, and pay for all shoeing and tons of vet bills to top it off. Do I have to?
Info to add: The divorce settlement incorrectly said I shall maintain the horse through summer 2012. It was a typo we didn't catch, and I verbally committed to board the horse through summer 2013. She chose to move the horse to another facility, not me. Boarding at my house is way cheaper than paying a sale barn, but she chose to move the horse on her own. I DID already pay her for July and August boarding, to help her out, and shoeing. But are all the vet bills mine to pay? She is insisting on those payments as well.
Divorce / Separation Lawyer
This sounds like you should really do a cost-benefit analysis of this situation. Are the attorneys fees and costs of arguing about this going to outweigh the 50% that she is asking you to pay? If not, then you may want to retain counsel to argue about the language in the agreement and if she had the right to move the horses from the home before it sold. However, it seems like there is a requirement that the horse be sold as well. So, it seems like your timeframe here is limited and you need to think about how much you would spend to argue the point. Good luck to you.
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Divorce / Separation Lawyer
The reason for her moving the horse may come into play if she brings the issue to court to enforce these expenses against you. If the divorce agreement specifies that the horse is to be maintained at the marital home, and it was only by her choice to move the horse, she will have to bear the expense of moving the horse and boarding the horse where she chose to move it to. Veterinary bills do not fall under the scope of boarding (food or shoeing), at least as you have defined it above. If the result of all of the Vet bills is because of a lack of adequate boarding at your home, then you could be liable.
The horse needs to be put on the market for sale this month, but based upon the agreement, your obligation to pay 50% boarding expenses starts September. There needs to be a good faith effort used to sell the horse as well, i.e. placing ads in appropriate places, Craigslist, etc.
I urge you to have an attorney review your divorce agreement to ensure you are not in violation, as my advise is only based upon what you have disclosed.
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