My husband and I (have been together for 6 years) had a dispute about a month ago he was extraordinarily intoxicated and mad. We were with a bunch of friends and he was incoherently arguing with everyone. The cops were called and immediately threw him on the ground arrested him and told me it was domestic violence out of my hands. My husband is nowhere near an abusive person but does suffer from a drinking problem and has been seeking help for his problem. Even in the police report it states he was fighting with everyone even resisting the police (which certainly doesn't help his case). Any chance you think I could get this dropped to drunk and disorderly or anything similar? Because that is certainly the case here. A DV offense would put a stop to his military career.