Continuation on the question: My son's father has never took me to court nor have i ever signed papers for my son to live with him. Everything was verbal. So nothing was ever in the courts, no support or did i give up custody of my son. My son does work p/t. I had raised my son by myself until he wanted to live with his father as his father was giving him materialistic things. So my question is what can happen. I spoke with my son and wanted him to sign and agreement with me as to the understanding, go to school we help out. Don't go school, no money. He refused to sign. My ex called and was verbally abusive on the phone. What can stem from this?