My husband and I are in the process of getting a divorce and custody. We have been married for 10 years, he is in the military and he was served with a PFA by me because he was abusive. Right now we are setting up child support and spousal support. He wants to cash in his retirement TSP and he wants me to sign a form to release the money and he said he is going to give me half of the retirement. Should I sign the papers or have a lawyer look them over. I do not qualify for free legal aid. I am located in Marietta, PA and I am trying to find a lawyer that can help me look over documents and I can not find anyone and can not afford to pay a lawyer up front to retain them. I am a single mother of two trying to just get by day by day. Any suggestions would be greatly appreciated.