We recommend hiring a New York traffic lawyer to defend you. I expect that we can get this case reduced to a lesser charge to avoid an insurance hike and that we can save you the $300 Driver Assessment Fee.
Points from New York do transfer to your Virginia license so it is definitely worth fighting. See the following link:
You won't have to come back to New York as we can handle for you.
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