Our father passed away unexpectedly 2 months ago and our mother is withholding his will & lawyers info. How do we get a copy?
Our father passed away 2 months ago and our mother is withholding his will and we do not remember the lawyers name that he delt with. How do we get a copy. She has avoided us (2 daughters and one son) for weeks since we asked her for the information. She is not mentally stable, is abusive & manipulative and there is not much of a chance to reason with her.
I agree with my colleague Ms. Lindquist that the Will needs to be filed. Under F.S. 732.901 the custodian of the Will must deposit it with the clerk where the decedent died within 10 days after receiving information that the decedent has passed away. Upon petition and notice the custodian may be compelled to produce and deposit the Will with the clerk. If you are are successfull in such a petition you are entitled to costs, attorney's fees and any other damages you've suffered as a result of the dealy in filing the Will. I strongly recommend you obtain a consultation with a board-certified Wills & Estates lawyer in your county.
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It is correct that the custodian of a Will has the legal obligation to file the original Will with the Probate Court in the county of residence of the decedent within 10 days of the date of death. In my experience a letter to the custodian from an attorney for an interested family member usually stimulates compliance with the law. Before going to the expense of a suit against your mother, you may attempt to get a copy of the Will by other means, such as from your father's attorney who would have prepared the Will. If you learn that the Will leaves everything to your mother, then you would have avoided the expense of legal action. However, you may wish to consult with a probate attorney, as under certain circumstances you may be entitled to inherit a portion of the probate estate as an intestate heir, where no Will is found.
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If your mother is not mentally stable perhaps you should consider a guardianship for her. A board certified probate atty could counsel you on this matter.
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Florida Statutes at Sec. 732.901 requires the production of wills - that is, posting the will with the clerk of court - within 10 days. An interested party may sue to require posting the will, and for any damages incurred because of delay. Usually a simple demand letter from counsel will obtain compliance. Suppressing or destroying a will is a felony; mentioning this in a demand letter is advisable. Such a letter can be kind and conciliatory, but will not be welcomed by Mom.
It may be that you are not named beneficiaries. If not, there is nothing in this for you. Law does protect spouses rights, but not children in respect to inheritances. If you are beneficiaries AND Mom is named as the Personal Representative (PR), please keep in mind that it is difficult (but not impossible) to convince a court to refuse the appointment a person designated in the will as PR. It is actually less difficult to remove a PR later. This depends on what you can prove. Usually if harm to the estate is very likely, the courts will give serious consideration to a Petition to reject the named PR.
If Mom is the only beneficiary, you may ultimately need to consider a guardianship for her. If it is in her best interests to be in a guardianship, a determination of competency is made. If she is found to not be competent, even to a small degree, she statutorily cannot be the PR of Dad's estate. This is dependent upon the what the review committee for her competency, which is appointed by the court, determines. If she is barred from acting as PR, the court will choose the person who will serve.
A third possibility is to file a petition for Administration of an Intestate Estate, contending that Mom has failed or refused to post the will after demand, and having never seen the will, you do not believe it exists. She is served with this Petition, and is likely to react by posting the Will, and possibly hiring counsel and filing a Counter-Petition for Administration of the Testate Estate. You are nevertheless entitled to fees and costs.
While your goal is to have the will posted, you MUST consider the alternatives and possible outcomes of your choices. Clearly, no matter what, Mom will be unhappy, and probably angry. The demand letter can be kind and gentle, but experience says she will nevertheless be unreasonable and very hostile. Each of the above alternatives have merit, especially needed in all events is a demand letter. Whichever action you choose, this is likely to go on for awhile, and can be costly. Consider whether Dad's assets and probable disposition warrants the level of emotional turmoil required. Balance that against Mom's possible/probable need for a guardianship. Ultimately, a guardianship may be the kindest way to protect her and yourselves.
Perhaps your best choice is to do nothing. A nice card from all of you apologizing for any stress may help "mend fences," although you have done nothing wrong. Emotional withdrawal after loss of a spouse is common; everybody deals with grief in different ways. Any action may be brought later. You are all grieving, and therefore reactive. I urge that you consider that you now must parent your own parent; be kind, hold back your upset with her acts and deeds. If she is endangering her well-being, then act in a unified manner.
I am sorry to hear of your loss. My colleagues are more than correct in their answers but my concern if the welfare of your mother. If your mother is mentally unstable, I suggest you contact a guardianship attorney and take control. She may be so overwhelmed and being mean sometimes represents alzhimer onset. She may be trying to hide that there is something wrong with her and therefore becomes very defensive.
Inheritance rights and estate planning
Inheritance rights refers to the rights most states give to a spouse (and in some cases, children or grandchildren) that prevent you from disinheriting them.