I received evection papers, 1.action in forcible entry and detainer 2.summons in civil action. court date november 06,2008 at 2:15pm. First my husband can not make that time he is working at a new job and cant take time off. Will I be ok to be the only one to show on our behalf? Also we intend to be out of the house by the end of the following weekend, nov 9.2009, do we still need to show up in court?