who is responsible for current house bills? can court appoint one person as administrator even if no papers are signed by other sibling?
Estate Planning Attorney
When parents die without either having executed a Will, the law of intestate succession hold that the estate will pass to their children equally. In the event one child has predeceased the parents, his or her share will pass to his or her children if there are any. In order to administer the estate, any potential heir may apply to be administrator. He or she will have to post a surety bond in order to do so. To be appointed, all other heirs must sign a renunciation. If they do not, the only way an administrator may be appointed is for the filing of a Verified Complaint and Order To Set a Hearing Date with the County Surrogate. The matter will be scheduled before the probate judge who will appoint an administrator. If the applicant is deemed ready, willing and able by the court to act, he or she will likely be appointed. However, if a contest to the application is filed by another family member, the court may appoint a member of the probate bar to serve as administrator. Since it appears the matter is contentious, hiring competent counsel is highly recommended.
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Estate Planning Attorney
The child willing to be the administrator can petition the Court for appointment. Notice of the petition should be given to the other child so they may appear and object to the appointment. Since this may be adversarial, it may be a good idea to get the assistance of legal counsel.
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Elder Law Attorney
Since Tom and Peter gave dead on advice to yur main question, I won't repeat their points. However, regarding your what now and who is responsible questions.... If the other child wants to be co-administrator, it may make sense for the two children to serve together rather than waste money on a court proceeding. If the other child is just refusing to do anything, the first child probably can get appointed through a simple court application as Tom describes. Regardless of whether there is an administrator, the estate is liable for all of decedent's expenses and administration costs so if, for instance, RE taxes aren't being paid, they will build up with interest. Similarly, the utility can shut off service and sue if not paid. You need to resolve this ASAP and should retain an estate lawyer to file the required court papers.
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