My wife is playing delay tactics, what can be done?

Asked about 3 years ago - New Brunswick, NJ

I filed for divorce in december.It was a short marriage of 18 months. My wife was supposed to file her Case Info Statement by 30th April but she hasnt filed yet, although I did so. She has not even responded to my interrogatories even though 45 days have passed since they were sent.
Obviously,she is trying to delay the things.She knows that she will not be getting much in terms of alimony,therefore she is trying to squeeze as much as possible through temporary support. Also since a non-profit organization is fighting the case for her( at little or no legal fees,I think) she has no intention to settle the case.
My Question is

Additional information

Marriage Duration :18 months
Children :None
My income 100K
Her income : currently none but she is a doctor from india and is capable of earning much more when she gets licensed to practise in US
I have no other assets other than 25K in my savings bank account
I have spent 10K in her residency applications and exam fees,for which I am claiming Reimbursement alimony
I am paying $200/week in temporary support, and she is living for free with her relatives

Attorney answers (3)

  1. David Perry Davis

    Contributor Level 17


    Best Answer
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    Answered . You again..... Namaste!

    My friend, if your lawyer isn't filing a motion over discovery and to move it along, get a second opinion. He / she sends one letter -- "your CIS is overdue as are your discovery responses. Please consider this letter a good faith attempt to resolve the issues without involving the court. If I don't have your responses by May 30, I intend to immediately file the appropriate motion seeking counsel fees and dismissal of pleadings. Please don't make this necessary."

    Good luck with it.

    The above is said without seeing your case file and without my understanding the entirety of the facts of your... more
  2. Robert Ricci

    Contributor Level 17

    Answered . I know it is frustrating. A litigant cannot be forced to settle. But you can file motions seeking to strike her Answer for failure to file a CIS and answer discovery. You have to follow the Court Rules on discovery motions. This will apply pressure, and force her to move the case along. But a litigant who understands the Rules, and wants to delay is hard to deal with. The court generally is going to try and avoid entering a Default, especially against a pro se. The best advice is to make sure you comply with all deadlines and keep the pressure on her to comply by bringing her delays to the attention of the court.

    Robert Ricci, Jr., Esq.
    Rahway, NJ

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  3. Andrzej Piotr Szymanski

    Contributor Level 12

    Answered . If you wife has not responded to discovery requests or file a CIS then a motion should be filed to enforce that. That motion should request attorney fees as a sanction for fail to do so. Unfortunately litigation can take a lot of time and can be very frustrating. If you are represented by an attorney then they should have filed a motion by now. If you are not represented by an attorney, get one. There is case law in New Jersey that suggests that someone who sponsors a spouse for immigration purposes may be liable for alimony. It also sounds like she is represented by Legal Aid which can be somewhat frustrating because she does not feel the sting of attorney fees, which makes settlement more difficult. Your case will move forward eventually, the Court will order a Early Settlement Panel (ESP). At the ESP a panel of two attorneys tries to bring the parties together and make a settlement. If not settlement can be reached you move onto Economic Arbitration. At Economic Arbitration you and your spouse must start paying for the services of an arbitrator. If no settlement can be reached, the Court will order a trial. Hang in there.

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