There is no legal way to force her to attend counseling.
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The Mikes are right on this one. You can't force her into therapy.
Since you've been married for such a short time, you may qualify for summary dissolution. If you do end up divorcing, at least make the process easy on yourself. Here's a link to an article I wrote on summary dissolution for your benefit:
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