My wife and I are seperated(not legally)(the mortgage and lot lease are in both our names) can I live in the home also?

Asked over 1 year ago - Buffalo, NY

We have 3 children the youngest with Autism.

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  1. Jayson Lutzky


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    Answered . If yiu are married and deed is in both names, then you can live in the same house unless there is an order granting your wife exclusive possession. Consult with a local divorce lawyer to help you.

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  2. Michael C. Wild

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    Answered . It appears you have questions about a separation in addition to questions about real property. It's difficult to give a definitive answer in to your question because it will probably require some document review.

    I have a real estate practice in the area, and I'm happy to sit down and discuss your questions in a confidential setting.

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  3. Steven Warren Smollens

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    Answered . Dear Home Owner:

    You are right. You are not "legally" separated (you may not even taken the first proper steps to a legal separation) you are not under a court order to cede possession of the house to your spouse, there is no order of protection barring you from the house or mandating you keep a distance from your spouse, you own the house and are responsible for the mortgage, is there a reason you believed that you should not be in the house.

    A married couple contemplating dissolution of a marriage are well-served by early consultations with marriage counselors and attorneys. Your home ownership, child-rearing and finances are entwined. As long as you are living together, you are not "separated."

    Good luck.

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  4. Edwin Drantivy

    Contributor Level 18

    Answered . It depends. You would be well-served to discuss your dilemma with a New York domestic relations attorney in a confidential forum as soon as possible.

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