I am in California. My son's friend is 14 and has decided (a bit reluctantly) to give her baby girl up for adoption. As far as I know, the birth father and his family are not involved with the baby and do not care to be. The birth mother's family does not want to take the responsibility on of raising another child. They are in favor of the baby being adopted. We have discussed the possibility of my husband and i adopting the baby. If it is possible, what do we need to do to make it happen? We would like to avoid putting the baby is foster care if we can.