You are still entitled to 1/4 of the estate after your mother's death. Merely asking a question does not constitute a violation of the terms of anybody's Will. Should the Executor attempt to bar you from your inheritance after your mother passes away, unfortunately, you will need to hire an attorney to represent your beneficial interest in the estate. Good luck to you.
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The Executor of the Will must follow the language in the Will. You should take a copy of the will to an attorney who practices probate and ask his or her advice. Generally, an exculpatory clause means that if someone challenges the will in court, he or she will be presumed to have predeceased the testator. Clauses such as this are invalid in some states. If your father passed away a year and a half ago, his estate should have been settled by now. If he left everything to your mother, you will have to abide by her Will and how she devises her property. This is why you need to consult an attorney now. There may not have been anything for you to inherit after your father passed away if everything was jointly owned with your mother or he devised all of his property to her.
Well, besides the fact that asking to stay at a home is not actually contesting your inheritance, this situation sounds ridiculous. If you already smell a problem, get your own attorney and protect your rights. This does not sound like a violation of any "no contest" clause but a vindictive family member who needs to know you will assert your rights.
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