My question is in regards to Estate Probate state of Massachusetts, whom is entitled to the gift(s)?

Asked about 1 year ago - 01082

Prior to my Dad's passing, I had given him a variety of gifts (e.g., portable generator, cordless drill, tool boxes) and according to his will my Mom whom survives him is to inherit the house, land, belongings. However, unlike the fair equal distribution of assets to the five children as his will states; she is giving most to her favorite child. As a consequence, and I thought I had read it somewhere, am I not legally entitled to the gifts I gave to my father?

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  1. Steven Kelsey Hemingway


    Contributor Level 14


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    Answered . As they were gifts, they became your father's property upon receipt. They are part of his estate at death and are his to pass through his will as he pleases.

    As for your mother giving disproportionate distributions to one child, you will have to look at the language of the will. Often, wills contain provisions allowing a personal representative great leeway in determining what distribution is fair and equitable. If your mother has effectively disinherited someone or has given severely disproportionate gifts to one or more children, she may be violating her duties as personal representative. You would need to file a petition with the court.

    Consult an attorney. Have the attorney look at the will, first and foremost. It would not be unheard of for a will to say something like, "my executrix is to distribute my estate to and among any one or more of my children as she, in her sole and unfettered discretion shall deem appropriate." If that is the case, your mother would have final say on who gets what and who, if anyone, gets nothing.

  2. Brian C. Snell

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    Answered . I am sorry for your loss.
    The gifts that you gave to your father were his property. As you pointed out, that property then passed to your mother. She can distribute this property to whom ever she chooses. My suggestion to you would be to ask for what you want. Without doing so, your mother will not know that she is hurting your feelings by not passing items on to you.

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  3. Elliot S Coren

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    Answered . Hi

    Your gifts to your father became your father's property while he was alive and you have no right to get them back. Under the new probate code, your mother inherits everything from your father so the property is hers to give as she chooses.

    Steve Coren

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  4. James P. Frederick

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    Answered . When you give someone a gift, you give up any and all claims you might have on the item. Otherwise, it is not a gift, but a loan. Once you gave your dad these things, they were his. Upon his death, they pass to your mom under the Will. She is then free to do whatever she sees fit with them. While there is some basis for argument that she should look to you, first, she is under no legal requirement to do so.

    James Frederick

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  5. Celia R Reed

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    Answered . I agree with my colleagues. Once you give a gift, you are not entitled to get it back.

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