I did not originally want to press charges but recently we both had to move back home and I can not stand how perverted he is and it has brought up a lot of repressed feelings. I confronted him of how I was feeling and what had happened and he laughed in my face saying that none of that ever happened. He is trying to become a police officer and if he does, I'm not sure what I will do with myself. It happened when I was 8 till I was 9 years old and he was 12 to 13 years old. It happened in New Jersey, but we both now live in North Carolina. If I can't have him arrested because I don't have proof since it happened so long ago is there anything I can do to at least prevent a him from becoming a police officer.