My mother is the Trustee of my grandmother's estate, and one of four beneficiaries. Is she allowed to disburse funds to herself?

Asked over 1 year ago - Ada, OK

The trust was created for four beneficiaries, two of which receive 1/3 and two who each receive 1/6 ( they are sisters). My mother is Trustee and also a beneficiary of her mother's irrevocable trust. The sisters have received 70,000 in disbursements, my mother has disbursed 48,000 to herself and the other party has received 24,000 with more on the way. The three other beneficiaries wish to have my mother removed as Trustee because they see her disbursement to herself as mismanagement. They have consulted an attorney who is threatening to legal action and my mother does not have the funds to hire an attorney to defend herself.

Additional information

I forgot to add that my grandmother passed away in 2011, but they are demanding an accounting of the Trust from when my grandfather passed away in 2004. They are demanding my mother resign as Trustee and giving her three days to do so before they take legal action.

Attorney answers (2)

  1. Steven M Zelinger


    Contributor Level 20


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    Answered . Are you talking about the same trust? Is there more than one trust? It is not uncommon for someone to be both trustee and a beneficiary, which is not in and of itself a problem. Sometimes people run into issues with interim distributions but so long as the terms of the trust are being followed a trustee is permitted to distribute funds to them self. Each beneficiary is entitled to information and an accounting to ensure that the terms are in fact being followed. You say that your mother does not have funds to defend herself= she is the trustee of the trust and so long as she is acting appropriately the trust should pay her legal fees. She clearly needs an attorney.

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  2. James P. Frederick

    Contributor Level 20

    Answered . I agree with Attorney Zelinger. Your mother needs an attorney. The trust will pay for it.

    James Frederick

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